Try Not to Compare Your Insides to Their Outsides

by | Apr 9, 2015 | Thursday Musing | 10 comments

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Everyone is screwed up, broken, clingy, and scared, even the people who seem to have it more or less together. They are much more like you than you would believe. So try not to compare your insides to their outsides. Also, you can’t save, fix or rescue any of them, or get any of them sober. But radical self-care is quantum, and radiates out into the atmosphere, like a little fresh air. It is a huge gift to the world. When people respond by saying, “Well, isn’t she full of herself,” smile obliquely, like Mona Lisa, and make both of you a nice cup of tea. – Anne Lamott 

Image: Reflections by Sonny Abesamis via Flickr.

10 Comments

  1. Sarah
    Sarah on April 9, 2015 at 2:08 pm

    This is one that needs to be printed and plastered all over the house. Or I could just read it every morning. That would be good, too. 🙂

    • Rudri
      Rudri on April 12, 2015 at 11:27 am

      I agree, Sarah. It is a reminder that I frequently need. If you like this truth from Anne, check out her Facebook page where she wrote several other observations in honor of her 61st birthday.

  2. Lindsey
    Lindsey on April 10, 2015 at 6:06 am

    I have goosebumps. I just started a post for next week titled Insides and Outsides. Yes. xoxo

    • Rudri
      Rudri on April 12, 2015 at 11:28 am

      Oh, wow! I look forward to reading your post, Lindsey.

  3. Tamara
    Tamara on April 10, 2015 at 12:49 pm

    I love her so much! My uncle went to hear her speak a few years ago and got me a book signed by her. She’s certainly got the best quotes.
    We are all hot messes..

    • Rudri
      Rudri on April 12, 2015 at 11:29 am

      That is a book signing I want to do in the future. I’ve loved Anne Lamott’s words for as long as I can remember. Many gems and treasures in her work.

  4. Tiffany
    Tiffany on April 13, 2015 at 7:21 am

    Perfect quote! Easier said then done…

    • Rudri
      Rudri on April 13, 2015 at 5:12 pm

      I agree. When we are in the middle of it, it is definitely hard to keep that in mind.

  5. Amy
    Amy on April 16, 2015 at 10:53 am

    Love your blog. Just discovered it! Really needed to read this quote !!

    • Rudri
      Rudri on April 16, 2015 at 3:25 pm

      Welcome Amy,

      So glad to hear that you enjoy my words. Yes, Lamott’s work often carry the best reminders.