Everyone is screwed up, broken, clingy, and scared, even the people who seem to have it more or less together. They are much more like you than you would believe. So try not to compare your insides to their outsides. Also, you can’t save, fix or rescue any of them, or get any of them sober. But radical self-care is quantum, and radiates out into the atmosphere, like a little fresh air. It is a huge gift to the world. When people respond by saying, “Well, isn’t she full of herself,” smile obliquely, like Mona Lisa, and make both of you a nice cup of tea. – Anne Lamott
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This is one that needs to be printed and plastered all over the house. Or I could just read it every morning. That would be good, too. 🙂
I agree, Sarah. It is a reminder that I frequently need. If you like this truth from Anne, check out her Facebook page where she wrote several other observations in honor of her 61st birthday.
I have goosebumps. I just started a post for next week titled Insides and Outsides. Yes. xoxo
Oh, wow! I look forward to reading your post, Lindsey.
I love her so much! My uncle went to hear her speak a few years ago and got me a book signed by her. She’s certainly got the best quotes.
We are all hot messes..
That is a book signing I want to do in the future. I’ve loved Anne Lamott’s words for as long as I can remember. Many gems and treasures in her work.
Perfect quote! Easier said then done…
I agree. When we are in the middle of it, it is definitely hard to keep that in mind.
Love your blog. Just discovered it! Really needed to read this quote !!
Welcome Amy,
So glad to hear that you enjoy my words. Yes, Lamott’s work often carry the best reminders.